CHANGE OF HEART

PART 1 - LOVE AND FORGIVENESS
Lesson 1 - Changing My Mind
1. Can I Change?
2. The Power of Our Thoughts
Figure 1-1 Our Assumption
3. Challenging our thoughts and beliefs
Figure 1-2 The power of thought
Figure 1-3 The ABCD Model
Nicole’s scenario
Andrew’s scenario
Personal Scenario

Lesson 2 – What the World Needs Now
1. Connecting the head, heart and emotions
Figure 2-1. The heart of the matter.
2. The condition of the human heart
Mike’s Scenario
Laura’s Scenario

Lesson 3 – Change of Heart
1. Symptoms of the condition
of others
Nicole the Single Mom
Table 2-1. Biblical Love in Action
Table 3-1. Rating Nicole’s traits
Joe the OTR Driver
Table 3-2. Rating Joe
Table 3-3. Identifying corrective
actions for Joe
2. Symptoms of the condition
of my own heart
Table 3-4 Symptoms of the
condition of my heart
3. The need and offer for
an exchange of heart
My Need for Forgiveness

Lesson 4 – My Need for Forgiveness
1. The trap of unforgiveness
2. The high cost of unforgiveness
3. The process of unforgiveness
Table 4-1. Doing Wrong when You've been Wronged
Monica and Carl’s Scenario

Lesson 5 – My Need to Give and Request
Forgiveness
1. Only the offended can offer forgiveness
2. Seeking forgiveness
3. Giving forgiveness
Giving Forgiveness Scenario
Scenario 1: David and Amanda

Lesson 6 –My Need to Forgive Myself
1. How can someone forgive
him/her self?
2. Re-examine the
unforgiveness process.
Table 4-1. Doing Wrong
when You've Been Wronged
3. What Place does Repentence
Play in Forgiving Myself?
God intentionally forgets
confessed sin
Lingering guilt from
confessed sin
Dropping the charges
against myself
Jessica’s Scenario
Tyler’s Scenario

PART 2 - RECONCILIATION
Lesson 7 – My Need to
Make Restitution
Restitution under Old Testament
(OT) law
Restitution under New Testament
(NT) grace
Restitution and criminal justice
Table 7-1. Old Testament
restitution principles.
Table 7-2 Restitution Traits
Gabby’s Scenario
Steve’s Scenario

Lesson 8 – A New Heart in My Home
Submission
Wives and Husbands
Figure 8-1. The Crazy Cycle
Children and Parents

Lesson 9 – A New Heart
in My Community
Labor and Management
Citizens
Table 9-1. Citizenship Rights
and Responsibilities
Neighbors

Appendix
References
The plan of salvation
Change of Heart Worksheet
Change of Heart Facilitator
Tally Sheet
Condition of my heart
Self Assessment
Lesson 7 Worksheets